Rome wasn’t built in a day—and neither is your dream home

A bright and welcoming living room that combines classic elegance with cozy appeal. Source: Pinterest

Finding Your Design Style Takes Time

If you’ve ever felt pressure to “get it right” when decorating your home, you’re not alone. We live in a world where social media makes it look like everyone else’s house came together overnight—and perfectly. But after working in interior design for over 20 years, I can say with confidence that figuring out your design style takes time, and that's OK! Remember—Rome wasn’t built in a day. It took years, and look how breathtaking it is today. (Don’t worry, I’m not suggesting you take a thousand years to finish your living room… but you get the point.) Your home deserves a little

patience. Let it evolve piece by piece until it’s something you truly love. Finding your style shouldn't be rushed and it’s certainly not something you should stress over.

A beautifully renovated, vintage-inspired kitchen from the century old home of Erin Conway- creator of Kismet House Blog

Most likely you won't get it right the first time

You can't be afraid to make mistakes. You’ll make choices you love and others you regret, but don't sweat it. Even professional designers make their fair share of mistakes, so don’t let the fear of messing up hold you back. Every “oops” teaches you something new and brings you closer to a beautiful home.

Soft and layered bedroom. Image via Pinterest

Don't rush it

One of the biggest mistakes you can make is rushing into a style just because it’s trending. Trends come and go, but your home should reflect you. Give yourself permission to experiment and think outside the box. Live with paint samples taped to the wall for a week. Try a new pillow or piece of decor, and see how it feels in your space. Rearrange furniture. Swap things out. Just slow down and enjoy the process.

Clean and sophisticated dining room by Bria Hammel Interiors

Embrace the “in-between” stage

Don’t be afraid of that slightly mismatched, unfinished, “still figuring it out” moment. This is where you can discover what you truly like. Spend more time researching, collecting inspirational photos, and imagining how you want your space to feel before committing to big changes.

A beautiful, moody space by Jean Stoffer Interiors

Serene bedroom with natural touches by Pure Salt Interiors

Get together and talk it out

Don’t forget the value of conversation. Friends and family can surprise you with thoughtful advice or hard-learned lessons from their own decorating adventures. They might see something you’ve missed or help you think of your space in a new way.

In the end, creating a home you love isn’t about perfection, it’s about letting it grow with you—one thoughtful, imperfect, and authentic step at a time. So enjoy the process, embrace the journey, and enjoy watching your style unfold.